
Exclusive Events
Step beyond the booking — and into the world of By, Her.
Our exclusive events are invitation-only experiences designed for those who value intimacy, elegance, and thrill. Expect private parties and 18+ gatherings, always complimentary for our members.

Muses & Mingling
Our signature annual event where you’ll meet every woman on our roster in one decadent evening of food, drink, and entertainment.
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Signature cocktails
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Private curtained areas for 1:1 time
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Tasting stations: oysters, chocolates, truffle bites
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Soft NDA enforcement on arrival for discretion

The Velvet Room: Kink & Conversation
One playful evening for pre-approved members and companions that have kink/fetish interests.
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Interactive stations
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Consent-forward lounge chats with companions
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Private playrooms available
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Lingerie & masks encouraged
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Concierge on-site for custom requests
Join the Guest List for an Upcoming Event
Show your confirmation SMS on arrival.
Simply RSVP, confirm, and enjoy.
No entry fees. Your experience is always on us.